
Sleep problems, anxiety and depression
A client who came in after several years of significant sleep difficulties described constant awakenings in the early hours of the night with a feeling of anxiety, difficulty getting back to sleep, and a general sense of despair. She said that she had tried various treatments over the years and received pharmacological support, but felt that the improvement was only partial and that there was still a deep feeling that "something was wrong with me."
In an emotional process that lasted several months, issues related to deep fear emerged, a pattern of giving up on oneself to maintain relationships, and early experiences that contributed to a sense of internal insecurity. The work focused on creating a sense of security, strengthening internal boundaries, and releasing emotional burdens that had been carried for years.
Gradually, the client began to report a significant internal change. The quality of her sleep improved markedly , the anxious awakenings decreased, and she described a sustained period of continuous and satisfying sleep over many weeks. She said that this was the first time in years that she had experienced restful sleep that restored a sense of stability in her body and mind.
The change was not only evident at night – but also in life itself. She gradually returned to a fuller daily functioning , to social activity, to meaningful work and to a more relaxed relationship with her children . One of the main changes she described was the ability to be with herself confidently , without a sense of abandonment or despair.
During this period, and in consultation with her treating physician, she gradually adjusted her medication regimen. She described this period as a profound turning point, saying that the experience of emotional support allowed her to feel safe for the first time to reveal vulnerabilities and move from a more stable internal place.
According to her :
"For years I wasn't sleeping. Now I sleep — and it changed my life."
"My anxiety is less, my depression is less. I feel stronger."
"I don't feel at the mercy of my wounds anymore."
The process did not focus only on symptoms, but allowed for a broader change in the sense of life, stability, and choice .
Important to note
Details have been changed to protect privacy.
Emotional support is not a substitute for medical or psychiatric treatment.
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Boaz Tzafrir, therapist for body and mind
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